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Something's Not Right - Part 1

2/22/2016

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​When I first heard the news I told myself I wasn’t going to share it. Honestly, I just wanted to forget it. I certainly didn’t plan to write about it. It was too personal and frankly, a little too somber for my taste.
 
Then I thought about it some more. Why did I start writing anyway? (Many reasons actually). But beneath it all, I had one fundamental goal: to encourage and connect with people. Fact is, I can’t accomplish that goal by keeping my struggles to myself. I want to be real. So brace yourself folks, here’s me being real. ​
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Over the last three or four years I’ve had a few minor health issues. Back pain. Discomfort in my right hip. It wasn’t extreme or anything alarming, just enough to limit my walking. I saw a chiropractor. He said I was out of alignment.
 
I also noticed issues with balance. I had joined Jazzercise when my girls were young and decided to try it again. Now I struggled to stand on one foot for more than a few seconds. I wobbled and weaved like a drunken sailor. I blamed it on my back. After all, if my spine was out of whack, it was probably throwing my balance off, right?
 
My biggest challenge was fatigue. I had good days and bad days, but the majority of the time I felt tired and weak. On very bad days I remember thinking, something isn’t right. Maybe I have cancer. But I always found a perfectly good reason to explain it away.
 
Sure I’m tired; all moms are tired.
I guess this is what forty feels like.
I probably should exercise more.
Maybe I’m just lazy. I need to get moving.
It’s probably all in my head.
 
It could've been any of those reasons, so I told myself to suck it up and keep going.
 
But every now and then, some fluky thing happened to me. Like the night I abruptly jumped out of bed (I think Maddie was sick). I felt lightheaded, sick to my stomach and dizzy. Apparently I hit the wall on my way back to bed, which woke Curt. As I slid down the wall, Curt caught me and eased me down to the floor. (My husband, my hero!) Then both of my arms started tingling like crazy. I’m not talking about the kind of tingling you feel when your hand falls asleep. This felt like I’d stuck both arms in a light socket. It continued for several minutes. I’ll admit, it was a bit freaky. But it passed and when I woke up the next morning everything seemed normal. It never happened again.
 
Another time we went whitewater rafting in Colorado. The water was cold, for sure. But it didn’t seem to affect the rest of my family like it did me. I literally shook for more than an hour afterwards. Even after a hot shower, I couldn’t stop shaking. We all laughed it off. Evidently Mom was a wimp when it came to the cold.
 
When it came to walking, something felt off. I found myself tripping several times a day. I stumbled while walking up steps. I tripped while strolling down a perfectly flat sidewalk. It was always my right foot. When I played volleyball with my girls I felt weak and clumsy. Why couldn’t I get my serves over? I blamed it all on my out-of-whack back.
 
More and more, my health issues robbed me of fun with my family. Like the time we took our girls to St. Louis. On the first day we went to a Cardinals game. It was fun, but tiring. We climbed several flights of stairs to find our seats at the stadium. Then we walked around after the game exploring the area. The next morning I felt completely wiped out. We had planned to visit Six Flags, but I knew I wouldn’t have the strength to endure a long, hot day at an amusement park. I didn’t want to disappoint my girls. I felt like a lazy mom. But I couldn’t help it. Curt took the girls while I stayed at the hotel and slept most of the day.   
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​Over a period of two or three years I experienced several random symptoms. I briefly had vertigo – a horrible experience even if it was just one night. My family doctor said it should pass. I became depressed. I talked to my gynecologist about that. I had trouble with my vision. The ophthalmologist couldn’t find anything wrong. I had six weeks of physical therapy, hoping to improve my balance issues and muscle weakness. It didn’t help.
 
Not only was I tired and frustrated, now I was seriously afraid I was a hypochondriac. And I still had back and hip pain that my chiro couldn’t figure out. That’s it, I thought. It must be in my head.  
 
Then someone gave me the name of a different chiropractor. I really wasn’t interested. I had basically lost faith in the medical profession. But this guy was highly recommended, so with great hesitation I gave him a try.
 
And that's when I finally got some answers. After a long line of doctors and chiropractors, Dr. Shepherd was the first to start piecing my symptoms together. He asked probing questions. He listened to my answers. And he was the first doctor to look me in the eye and say the words: multiple sclerosis.
Okay, I know. It’s a blog, not a book. So I’ll stop here for today. Next week I’ll share what happened after Dr. Shepherd referred me to a neurologist. I’ll give you a few hints:
  • “Yep. Your foot shouldn’t do that,” and other phrases you don’t want to hear from your doctor.
  • MRI: Short for Magnetic Resonance Imaging ... or Moving Relatively Impossible … or Miserable Random Itches?
  • Spinal Tap: It’s not just a band from the eighties.
  • No more high heels? I never liked them anyway.
  • Lessons I’ve learned … one month after an MS diagnosis.
11 Comments
Denise Valuk
2/23/2016 07:19:30 am

Dear Sheri, Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story. I pray your courage will give others the strength they need to face their own medical situation and that you will get the help you need to live life to the fullest. Praying for all of you as your family navigates this new road. Hugs and prayers being sent your way.

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Sheri
2/24/2016 09:22:29 pm

Thanks Denise. It's so nice to hear from you! Hope all is well with you & your family. 💕

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Vivian Severs
2/23/2016 07:42:32 am

Oh sweet Sherri, I never knew about that...My prayers are with you!

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Sheri link
2/24/2016 09:25:32 pm

Thanks Vivian. I appreciate that. ❤️

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Stacie Chambers
2/23/2016 08:11:21 am

I'm so glad you're sharing this. You're such a brave lady.

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Sheri
2/24/2016 09:29:51 pm

Not sure brave is the word, but I'll take it anyway. Thank you my friend. 😊

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Marsha
2/23/2016 08:19:50 am

God's strength for you as you fight this battle! Hugs!

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Sheri
2/24/2016 09:34:41 pm

Thanks Marsha. (And same to you as Larry fights his battle!)

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Jennifer Rathe
2/23/2016 08:43:03 am

You wrote your story beautifully Sheri! I'm glad you shared. It will help someone else I'm sure. Prayers!

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Sheri
2/24/2016 09:38:21 pm

Thanks Jennifer, I hope so!

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Carolyn Larrison
2/25/2016 01:37:37 pm

Sherri I just read your blog and am still in shock, please know I will hold you up in prayer and I can ever do anything for you be sure to let me know.

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